Friday, June 22, 2012

we want to marry but his family ....


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Xania, at 22, you probably can't even realize yet just how wrong HE is. You can't make his family accept you. You didn't break up his marriage, but he definitely did. Even if his wife had affairs, and even if it was because he was unkind to her, that means he didn't make his marriage enough of a priority. In fact, he coped with it by turning to a girl who is young enough to be his child and getting her pregnant while he is still married.

There are so many red flags here that the only truly good answer I can give you is that you would be smart to reconsider having this relationship at all. Luckily for you, his family is forcing you to open your eyes and look at the situation, but you might still not see what you should be seeing - that your relationship with this man isn't a healthy one.

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uhm okay but let me just clear out some things
well the first thing is that i dont want to blame his wife for breaking her marriage alone ...... i know that we have made bad things as well
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he (my boss) moved out after he found out that his wife cheated so they we're actually seperated (he 100 % wanted a divorce)

we weren't in a relationship we just started to hang out togheter and after a while he said that he wants to be with me and we had sex, and i got pregnant while he is divorcing

and yes being pregnant in such a time is really stupid
but it just happend that way and when i told him that i'am expecting a child he was just happy and loved the baby from the first moment

we just taught that he could divorce his wife .. marry me have the baby and live happily togheter but things are just bad right now
and we're not proud of that what happend but it happend and we just want to make the best thing out of it

and you can sayy sugar baby or gold digger how much u want but i will only say that this is 100000% love and nothing bout the money or else

thank you

Stuff happens. I hope things work out as you'd like them to, though it'll be hard to get there.

I've mentioned some red flags that I hope you'll look at. Here's one more that is a BIG one, too. At your age, you're just starting in your career. You'll be at the peak of your career right around the time he's going to be ready to retire. Some questions I hope you'll ask yourself (whenever applicable):

- How will things be when he has no work responsibilities and you still have to go to work every day? Will he go off and do his own thing? Will you be the ball and chain that keeps him from travelling, starting a hobby career, or whatever his goals are?
- Your child will be reaching college age as he's getting ready to retire. Will you both be able to put away for college AND retirement?
- Will he resent you if you want to spend money and have fun at a time when he needs to putting away money for retirement?
- How will your energy and motivation levels work together or conflict as the years pass when there's such a large age gap?

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Thursday, June 21, 2012

Grand Strand surfers compete in U.S. Amateur championships ...

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Micha Cantor prepares for his first heat of the 12 and under age division

Surfers from the Grand Strand area flew out to California this week to compete in the United States Amateur surfing Championships.

Stoney Cantor, the father of a surfer in the competition, will send us updates throughout the competition.

As the official ISA-recognized National Governing Body for the sport of surfing in the United States, Surfing America is responsible for holding the USA Surfing Championships event each year and for selecting the official USA Surf Team to compete internationally,?according to their website.

The competition started Monday at the San Onofree beach in San Diego, CA. The 12 and under boys division and 12-16 age division started out the competition.

Cantor says it wasn't such a good day for the South Carolina Boys. Luke Gordon, a south strand surfer, got knocked out of his age division and Micha Cantor was knocked out of the 12 and under division.

Emory McClary and Katie Gordon of Pawleys Island in the girls division and Luke Gordon in the U-14 division will take compete later Wednesday.

More details to come Thursday.

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Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Strengthen Your Writing & Public Speaking With The Verb Skeleton

Good writing depends on crisp, active verbs. This is true for songwriting, fiction, sermons, essays and all other forms of writing. Also, preachers and liturgical readers can better hold the interest of listeners by emphasizing verbs when speaking.

Author/professor of English Frederick Smock has said:

Sometimes I ask my students to make a verb skeleton of a poem, or passage, that they have written. By isolating the verbs, one can tell if they carry the weight of the action (which they should). A good writer?s sentences move on the wheels of the verbs.

  • Songwriters, do this with your lyrics
  • Preachers, do this with your sermons
  • Hymnodists, do this with old hymns you?re revising ? especially if you want to edit archaic language. Don?t replace strong verbs with weak ones.

Circle or highlight your verbs. Or, if you?re ambitious, write the verbs from your latest song on a separate piece of paper. What do these verbs tell you about your song? Does it zip or plod?

Here is a partial verb skeleton for mine and Kristen?s ?Rising Tide,? one of the songs you can get for free in our The Whole Big Story record, on your right:

sweeps

subdues

erases

entered

came

became

watched

fell

became

crushed

conquered

canceled

ascended

sent

draw

lead

Some of these (sweeps, fell, conquered) are stronger than others (came, became). We didn?t find it necessary to revise came/becameout of the song. We needed those lines, and we liked the ratio of strong to weak verbs.


This is something you?ll have to decide each time. You need not delete every was and became, nor exchange every passive verb for an active one. But too many of them will make for a brittle, boring skeleton. Make yours strong, straight and ready to spring to life.

For more on how to improve your writing through verbs, see:

Thank you for reading our post. You can download our 4-song worship album ?The Whole Big Story? for free in the top-right sidebar of this website. We?ve also heard from many churches who have enjoyed leading these songs in worship services. If you?d like to do so, download free chord sheets from the ?Gilles Music? tab at the top of this page. And you can subscribe to this blog for free by clicking the RSS icon or signing up via email in the right-hand sidebar.
? Bobby & Kristen

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SPECIFICATIONS

2G Network

GSM 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900

3G Network

HSDPA

4G Network

-

Dimensions

128 x 65.4 x 9.2 mm

Weight

129 g

Display Type

Super AMOLED capacitive touchscreen, 16M colors

Size

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-Optional Padfone Station with 10.1 inches display

3.5mm Jack

Yes

Card Slot

microSD, up to 32 GB

Internal Memory

16/32 GB storage, 1 GB RAM

GPRS

Yes

EDGE

Yes

Wifi

Wi-Fi 802.11 b/g/n, Wi-Fi hotspot

Bluetooth

Yes, with A2DP

USB

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Android OS, v4.0 (Ice Cream Sandwich)

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GPS

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Talk Time

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Battery

Standard battery, Li-Ion 1520 mAh

Price

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